As a Mount Royal student for the last three years, I have
spent a significant amount of time on campus. Typically between classes (sometimes
before or after as well), I spend my time here studying, or working on
assignments. My preferred areas to do this are the silent reading rooms. They
are great for the large tables readily available, you can eat your lunch in
there, and really just have a great, comfortable place to study.
That is, most of the time.
Every so often, some new faces come through and seem to not
notice or just ignore the signs that say “SILENT READING AREA”. A handful of
times a month, you’ll get a few students who burst in the door as if they are
entering a loud restaurant. They yell at each other and laugh obnoxiously as if
there are voices or noises that need to be spoken over. While I’m sitting
across the room quietly, focused on my work at hand, seeing this is like the
gears in my brain coming to drastic halt. I start to feel my heart start
beating faster, my face starting to flush. I can’t focus on anything but them.
Most recently this happened to me while I was trying to cram
to finish my homework in time for it when it was due, next period. For me, this
requires my full concentration. I hear the rumbling vibrations of noise through
the window that separates myself, and a group of rowdy teenagers storming
through the hall. As I look over at them in disgust, my stomach sinks as I see
them heading to the door of the reading room I am in. The five of them crowd together
outside the door, and suddenly the volume of their voices goes up ten fold and
echoes through the room as the door opens. The group of students finally chooses
a seat, of course, at the table nearest to myself.
They don’t seem to notice everyone’s eyes on them. They are
too self-involved with each other’s jokes and hilarity to notice how they are
interrupting everyone. I’m sitting very nearby, staring right into their eyes,
hoping I can telepathically convey a message to them to be quiet. Much to my
expectation, my efforts go unnoticed, and they continue disrupting the room. I
start to imagine a situation where I walk over to their table confidently and smoothly
lay down the law. But of course, that never happens.
So I just sit there, and continue letting their behavior agitate
me, until I cave in and pack up all my things and move locations. By the time I
resettle somewhere else, time is running short, and I must work twice as fast
to get my assignment done. By this time I am still so frazzled, and annoyed
that I can hardly concentrate.
It burns me up to admit these people ruin a good part of my
day. These are the people I loathe here at Mount Royal. There are so many areas
around campus to study and be social at the same time. But for the sake of
common courtesy, if a specific location is labeled as a silent area, take the
hint.
I completely relate! I absolutely hate those people as well, but if it bothers you so much I think that next time you should come up to them and ask them to be quiet!
ReplyDeleteThat's the nature of some people.. Completely and utterly self absorbed next time please just stand up and slap these people upside the head it's super effective
ReplyDeleteTrue, people are so inconsiderate! Next time grow a pair and go over and tell them to be quiet. Or else, how are they ever going to learn?!
DeleteI completely agree with this! Honestly, I always hope someone will go up to their table and actually lay down the law. Of course, I always say I will but never would do that type of thing. I really hope these people take a hint!
ReplyDeleteI agree too, this is hard rant to argue against because I feel like everyone has been there. I especially need silence to study because I have ADHD. Even the people who are continually tapping their pen against the table or something like that, piss me right off and make it impossible for me to pay attention to what I am studying.
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